Death is inevitable, but only a few people have the fortune of a
graceful death. Sadhguru tells us about how to ensure a graceful exit
for a dying person, and the importance of taking away the “choppiness”
of death.
Questioner: I have a parent who is nearing her death. What is the best way to prepare her for this?
Sadhguru: Everywhere in the world, people talk about dying peacefully. All they are talking about is they do not want to die in a choppy manner; they want to recede gently. To take away the choppiness of death, one simple thing you can do is to have a lamp – preferably with ghee but you can also use butter – burning constantly, 24 hours of the day next to that person. This creates a certain aura so that the choppy nature of withdrawal can be regulated to some extent. Another thing you can do is to set up some kind of a universal chant – something like Brahmananda Swarupa on a CD – at a very mild volume. A consecrated sound like this in the background will also make sure that choppy withdrawal can be avoided.
Having a lamp and a simple chant going should continue up to 14 days
after one has been certified dead, because he may be medically dead but
not existentially dead; he is not completely dead. Death happens slowly.
The withdrawal of the life process from this lump of earth – the body –
happens step-by-step. For all practical purposes, the activity of the
lungs, heart and brain has stopped so they are declared dead, but it is
not yet so. Even if the person’s body is burnt, he is still not dead
because his movement into the other realm has not started.
It is based on this that there are various kinds of rituals in India
up to 14 days after somebody dies. Unfortunately, the knowledge and
power behind these rituals have mostly been lost and people are just
doing things for their livelihood. Very few people truly understand the
significance of what it is. Unless one leaves absolutely consciously
that he is instantly off, for such a person we do not do anything, but
for all others, these things are done because you have to show them the
way.
So the first thing that is done when somebody dies is, anything that has been intimately in touch with their body, such as underclothes, is burnt. Other clothes, jewelry, everything is distributed – not just to one person – but among many people within three days. Everything is distributed as quickly as possible so that they get confused. They will not know where to hang around anymore. If you were to give a bundle of their belongings to someone, they would go there because the energy of their own body still exists in the clothes. These things were done not only to settle the dead but also to settle the family and relatives, so that they understand that it is over. It doesn’t matter how involved and attached you were to somebody, when it is done, it is done – the game is up.
That is the reason why, when you see that even the dead are not treated with respect, something within you shakes. Not because you have to treat a body with respect but because he is exiting slowly. It doesn’t matter how he lived, at least that must happen well. Every human being must have that much intention.
Editor’s note: If you have had any experiences about the passing of a loved one, let us know about it by sharing in the comments section.
For more information & a free download of the chant, visit the Brahmananda Swarupa blogpost. You can also find more information on lamps at the blogpost about the significance of lighting lamps.
If you would like to delve deeper into the process of life & death, purchase Sadhguru’s ebook, Life & Death In One Breath. Please note that the ebook is available on Amazon. Amazon ebooks can be read directly on your web browser, PCs, tablets and smartphones. Click here for details.
Please comment on the source link : http://blog.ishafoundation.org/yoga-meditation/peaceful-death-dying-peacefully/
Questioner: I have a parent who is nearing her death. What is the best way to prepare her for this?
Sadhguru: Everywhere in the world, people talk about dying peacefully. All they are talking about is they do not want to die in a choppy manner; they want to recede gently. To take away the choppiness of death, one simple thing you can do is to have a lamp – preferably with ghee but you can also use butter – burning constantly, 24 hours of the day next to that person. This creates a certain aura so that the choppy nature of withdrawal can be regulated to some extent. Another thing you can do is to set up some kind of a universal chant – something like Brahmananda Swarupa on a CD – at a very mild volume. A consecrated sound like this in the background will also make sure that choppy withdrawal can be avoided.
So the first thing that is done when somebody dies is, anything that has been intimately in touch with their body, such as underclothes, is burnt. Other clothes, jewelry, everything is distributed – not just to one person – but among many people within three days. Everything is distributed as quickly as possible so that they get confused. They will not know where to hang around anymore. If you were to give a bundle of their belongings to someone, they would go there because the energy of their own body still exists in the clothes. These things were done not only to settle the dead but also to settle the family and relatives, so that they understand that it is over. It doesn’t matter how involved and attached you were to somebody, when it is done, it is done – the game is up.
Even if it is your enemy who is dying right now, you must create a peaceful atmosphere for him
Generally, everywhere in the world irrespective of which culture, it
is said, “even if it is your enemy who is dying right now, you must
create a peaceful atmosphere for him, you don’t do ugly things.” Maybe
you shot him in battle, but you take off your hat when he is leaving or
you say, “Ram Ram,” or whatever you know. When somebody is dying, at
that moment the whistle has already been blown and the game is over.
There is no point kicking now.That is the reason why, when you see that even the dead are not treated with respect, something within you shakes. Not because you have to treat a body with respect but because he is exiting slowly. It doesn’t matter how he lived, at least that must happen well. Every human being must have that much intention.
Editor’s note: If you have had any experiences about the passing of a loved one, let us know about it by sharing in the comments section.
For more information & a free download of the chant, visit the Brahmananda Swarupa blogpost. You can also find more information on lamps at the blogpost about the significance of lighting lamps.
If you would like to delve deeper into the process of life & death, purchase Sadhguru’s ebook, Life & Death In One Breath. Please note that the ebook is available on Amazon. Amazon ebooks can be read directly on your web browser, PCs, tablets and smartphones. Click here for details.
Please comment on the source link : http://blog.ishafoundation.org/yoga-meditation/peaceful-death-dying-peacefully/
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