Guruji
gave this story: There was a boy whose parents brought him to Guruji
complaining that the boy was not at all obedient to the parents. He was
wasting away his life. He was older than the other boys in his class,
and no one was ready to take him under their guidance. They hoped Guruji
would take him under his protection. Guruji refused to take the boy
without having a heart-to-heart talk with the boy. Guruji spoke to the
boy and asked him why he disobeyed his parents. The boy said he did that
because he was often beaten by the parents. Guruji agreed to take the
boy in, providing the boy would promise to be honest with Guruji. Guruji
told him that if ever he felt like having a smoke he should not smoke
on the sly, but come to Guruji and Guruji would not only let him smoke
but even give him the money to buy the cigarettes. The boy thought
Guruji was only joking. For a few days
he could abstain from the desire to smoke, but a few days later he was
strongly tempted to smoke, so he went to Guruji and told him that he had
a strong urge to smoke. Guruji at once gave him some money and told him
to go and buy himself a cigarette. This astonished the boy. He felt so
ashamed to go and buy himself a cigarette that he decided to give up the
habit of smoking altogether.
What was the principle behind
this story? The boy was able to communicate with Guruji. He was also
able to relate to Guruji as his father and mother. He could trust
Guruji. Also, the problem was not so much the child’s problem. His
parents used to beat him up, so the parents were also responsible for
that condition. No trust, no love from the parents, so the child was
finding love in other ways. Such a child can also become a terrorist. He
then becomes a negative person. Guruji has also said, “Only love can
take my place” and Babaji has said, “Only love can change this world.”
MOST OF THE PROBLEMS IN THIS WORLD ARE BECAUSE OF A LACK OF LOVE.
Swami Shuddhanandji , How to Overcome All the Problems in Life
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