Thursday, August 23, 2012

The significance of the using the word "We" instead of "You" .

This word "We" is really magical. If someone commits a mistake and if we have to point his mistake to him, we usually say that "You are the cause of all the turmoil because you handled things carelessly". Certainly, at this point, his ego will be on full alert and will not be able to listen what we were actually saying to him. Again if we make a simple replacement of word "You" by "We", the whole thing changes. For eg."We are the cause of all the turmoil because we handled things carelessly". Now, there is no blame game. We are enquiring together, if something has went wrong. So nobody is left out and there is ample space and time for us to introspect ourself. - Fidarose Isha.

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